People always ask me for advice yet never question why I don't ask them for advice! People always fall on me when they have no one else yet never ask who I have! I am always made out to have my life planned out. To know what foot to put in front of the other, but to be honest I don't. I am just like a normal 13 year old girl but I have the ability to tell people things they want to hear to make them happy!
Have you ever felt lost or confused? If so how much did you need that one person to be by your side? How many times have you cried out for help but never got heard? This has happened to me a lot and I guess most of you who are reading this now! It is always easier to be there for other people but it seems harder for people to be there for you! I am guessing this is true and you were nodding as you read that! If this is the case stop acting like an amazing friend to that person as they clearly make you feel like you have been put on a shelf and left alone most of the time. Or stand up and yell at the top of your lungs what you have always really been thinking inside! Tell them that they make you feel used and no matter how many times they tell you that you are the bestest friend they ever had, question them. Ask them if it is true why don't you treat me like your other best friends? Why do you only come to be for advice or to fall on? Why are you never there for me when I need you? Don't be afraid to ask them these things because they have answers and you have a right to know the answers.
I guess what I am trying to say is, you never have to feel like you are a back up because if you do then they that person clearly doesn't respect you well enough. Stand Up. Speak Up.
Tia
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